F is for FAILURE
Isn’t this what we are taught at school?
Nobody wants to get an F
Nobody wants to Fail
I was one of those kids, trying to avoid failure at all costs.
Despite trying to play it safe, life still managed to serve me situations I could fail at…
• I actually got an F at English at high school – hundreds of times
• The one serious relationship I had and wholeheartedly believed in didn’t last forever
• I can’t even count how many times I got rejected after a date or an interview
Well, it sucked.
And it was painful.
… but it also shaped who I am today.
And I have never been in a better place.
• It turned out if I really try, put my mind into it and combine it with consistency – I can live my life in English – I can even write a book in this language,too!
• The break up gave me the push to become the person I’ve always wanted to be
• Rejection doesn’t break me anymore. I learned to value my worth and when I know how much I can bring into the table, if someone isn’t interested in this, then I respect that- we are clearly after different things.
Have you ever realised you’re actually grateful for some of your failures?
I certainly have.
See, mindset around failure is something we could all really work on…
Instead of treating it as something detrimental to success…
Look at it as a tool that gets us the desirable outcome we are after.
And maybe then…
Just like it happened in my world…
You will start believing that…
F is not really for failure
It’s for FULFILMENT 😉